Thursday, June 11, 2009

After the Pool!

Hey Man!
Well it was some time after the pool. This guy is not suppose to even come into my house and he was going upstairs in my house. My daughter told me he wanted to take a shower in our house and she was very unhappy with him doing that. So I look and sure enough he is headed up the stairs and directing himself toward the bathroom to take a shower. Well my older daughter sees him and stops him going to the bathroom. Now she gets right in his face and tells him no way. But he trys to push through her. Now she is very mad about this so she takes off her shoes and is pounding him on the head with her shoes. Well as they come down the steps I grab onto her and try to hold her. But she gets away and chases him right out the door. I didn't know she was hitting him over the head the whole way outside. And I did not know that he had called her a very bad name and in my house too. So needless to say all went bad that day. Now with him telling his parents and they go to our hall it has gotten bad but I go back to him not being allowed in my house. And if he never came into my house like is suppose to happen then this never would have happened.

Monday, June 8, 2009

What happened Now?

Hey Man!
The next day and it is so weird about all the things that happened yesterday. The good thing was calling the lawyers office and finding out that everything is just fine. The letter they sent was something they sent to all their clients for anything that may occur in the future. So that was a big relief. But today was something after realizing all the stuff that happened after the pool. When everybody got back to the house and a certain someone wanted to take a shower at the house. Well of course no one wanted that to happen and instead of me getting to him and saying that it's not a good idea today. The sister got to him and everything went down hill from there. Until he was leaving and in a mad tirade. So now after the break up and it being quite nasty too. We are kind of worried about the dude since we know his family and things should not have gotten this far out. We thought about it and nothing we really could have done to change things. It breaks your heart to ever see people breaking their hearts though. It is time to move on and start over with love.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

The Pool!

Hey Man!
Well what a day we had today. At the pool went us to enjoy a marvelous day there. But things did not go as planned. No sir they did not. When there we had severeal people join us and they were friends of our daughter Daniella and a friend of Angelina's. It was very hot and we did get a little burned too. But when the day was over and my wife and I returned home we were just waiting till the rest of the group returned also. So after we got home and took our showers then my daughter's friend came over along with her and my older daughter. While they were here there was some loud voices and when we looked up we saw arguing and bickering going on. When the smoke cleared we saw Daniella and this friend arguing pretty good at this point. And now there was some loud talking and some harsh words being said. Wow, we are now in disbelief about all that is going on. Yikes! This has now turned very badly and you might say even a little dirty. Our daughter and this male friend are now yelling at each other on our stairway. Now they are at the bottom of the stairway and still yelling. He has now said some very hurtful things to her and now she has slapped him several times. Also he is now threatening her that he will call the police. It has gotten very very bad. They have now gone out the front door all yelling and slapping. Words were said that were severe. Now after leaving he calls back and wants all the things he gave my daughter back right now. Yes, that's jewlery and all kinds of camera's and picture frames and also x-box 360. Can you believe all this? It is over now since you don't ask for that x-box back unless it is very severe. So now my daughter knows that bad times are here with this relationship for sure. He got his you know what slapped silly and he is done yes he is out for the count. See ya buddy.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Making Disciples!

Hey Man!
We use our time and energy and talents not only to self advancement but we do the Kingdom preaching work and disciple making work and this is very much like making an investment. Everyone that has done this has reaped rich rewardsspiritually. For example this man had a very good job as a computer technician. But the bad thing was that his job took up alot of his time where he neglected his spiritual duties for himself and his family. Finally he quit his job because it was taking up all his time and energy and was leaving him spiritually impoverished. So he took up a new job and that was selling ice cream from a truck. He could then work as little or as many hours as he wanted. Now he had more time to spend with his family and taking care of his spiritual needs. His former work mates made fun of him and how do you think this worked out? Actually he made more money since there was a great desire for some good ice cream. It made him happier since it took alot of the stressand worry that he had with his former job. And most of all he feels closer to Jehovah and he has given his family a good hold on the truth. In this time of the end it is so important to get close to our loving God, Jehovah. These are critical times to deal with so we need to make the changes that are needed now so our families can become safe and they will get stronger spiritually.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

At Rehab!

Hey Man!
I got to talk to mom today finally and that was just great. She sounded so good to me even though she said she was having problems with her breathing. Then she told me that she had all the pamphlets that I sent her on her table and the lady next to her had a visitor and she asked mom what she was doing with the pamphlets. My mom told her she was going to through them away because she didn't have glasses so she couldn't read them. The lady told her that she was a Jehovah's witness and she was so happy to have found my mom. That was so exciting to hear about. I told her that was just great. She told the lady that I was an elder in the Georgia congregation. I thought that was so funny since I am an attendant tonight but not an elder. I guess to my mom I seem like an elder. I guess I must be doing my job of preaching to her since she thinks I am an elder. The lady talked to her for over two hours after she found out that her son was one of Jehovah's witness. I was so pleased that she was noticed, because now she will get someone to preach a little to her I hope. If she is in the hospital listening maybe something will sink in. My mom did tell me about the assembly that was going to be in west palm beach. It was a very encouraging talk I had with my mom today.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

What to do?

Hey Man!
That seems to be the question right now. What should I do now.
I need to get some type of employment but if I get it right now then it would be some what hard to travel to see my mom. Although I could still go by plane and just be gone for the weekend. I know I need to make up my mind quickly since those last pics of my mom were looking very bad lately. I really can't see her getting home after this. But we all said that last time and then she was back home taking care of herself again. So you can never count her out no matter how bad it looks. I think this time she has lost alot of her will power, since she always seems down and out because the pain she is feeling is pretty bad. My sister and brother just called to find out her information to call her since she is now in rehab. All of a suden they sent her to rehab but it doesn't look like she should be there. Although if she doesn't learn to care for herself she may be looking at a nursing home when she is able to leave that place. She would have to be able to get from the bed to her wheel chair and also be able to wheel her way to the bathroom and get on and off the potty. Her knees also seem to have gotten worse with filling up with water like they do. I know she really doesn't want to live with anyone but I really think that would be better than going into a nursing room Especially since money would be tight so the nursing home would not be of the best condition. And we all know what is said about nursing homes and I mean the good ones let alon those ones that have bad reputations too. So things right now are looking very bleak for my mom. I am hoping and praying that things may change for the better.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Mom!

Hey Man!
I got a picture of my mom in the email today and was very surprised about it. She looked really bad and this is after getting her heart operation and then telling everbody how good she is doing. Well this is now many weeks later and she does not look good especially to go to rehab now. I don't see how she is going to rehab. She still needs lots of medication and care. I don't see how she will ever go home anyway. Because when she goes home she will have to somewhat take care of herself. Yikes! I do not see that as possible. I see now that I do need to get down there to see her as soon as I can since her health does not look so good to say the least. She is 80 years old and I did think she would get through this since her mom was well into her 90's before she passed. That is surely why my mom did this operation because she felt she had at least 15 more years to go yet. But in less she makes a complete turn around in rehab I just don't see how she can do it. The last time she was sick she did make that miracle turn around and went back to her apartment and was living on her own again but this does seem to be a little more serious. Although she was doing so bad at Dolly's house when Dolly was doing everything for her. At that time we never thought she would be able to go back to her place again. But she did. So I will never put it past her to do it again. But I will be alot more surprised if she can do it this time.